看着我~上头条的时候不知不觉学到了~

lets going to talk about some inspirational quotes鼓舞人心的短语in the book of how to win friends and influence people人类的弱点

Every man I meet is my superior更好，父in some way.in that，I learn of him only knowledge that is used sticks in your mind。有用的知识留在脑子里

Ask yourself: What is the worst that can happen? Then prepare to accept it. Then proceed改进 to improve on the worst. 问问你自己:最坏的结果是什么?然后准备接受它，并在最坏的情况下继续改进。

Many of life's problems stem from the fact that we blindly compare盲目的攀比 ourselves to others and forget to enjoy our own lives. 生活中的许多烦恼都源于我们盲目和别人攀比，而忘了享受自己的生活。

The rare individual who unselfishly tries to serve others has an enormous advantage.少有的无私帮助别人的人，都有巨大的优势。

The only way I can get you to do anything is by giving you what you want.给与别人想要的，才是最重要的。

A person’s name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language. 一个人的名字，对他而言，比任何语言都重要。所以请记住别人的名字。

Arouse唤起 in the other person an eager渴望 want. He who can do this has the whole world with him.能唤起对方渴望的人，全世界都想跟随他。

Success in dealing with people depends on a sympathetic同情的 grasp of the other person’s viewpoint. 和人打交道的成功取决于掌握对方的观点。

Pay less attention to what men say. Just watch what they do. 别在意别说说了什么，多注意别人做了什么。

Remember a name and call it easily and you have paid a subtle and very effective compliment. 记住一个名字，然后很容易地叫出来，你已经给予了一个微妙而有效的赞美。

Three-fourths of the people you will meet are hungering for sympathy. Give it to them and they will love you. 你遇到的人中有四分之三渴望得到同情。把它给他们，他们会爱你的。

People are more likely to accept an order if they had a part in the decision that caused the order to be issued. 如果人们参与了发布命令的决策，那么他们更有可能接受命令。

Flaming enthusiasm 燃烧的热情 backed up by horse sense常识 and persistence坚持 is the quality that most frequently makes for success. 以常识及坚持作为支撑的热诚是成功的本质。

Most fatigue results from mental or emotional states. 大多数的疲劳现象来源于精神或情绪状态。

Most fears arise from ignorance and uncertainty. 恐惧大都是因为无知与不确定感而产生。

What you think you are is not who you really are, but what you think you become.你所认为的你，并非真正的你，反倒是你怎么想的，你就会变成什么样的人。

It is human nature to forget to be grateful感恩, and if we expect others to be grateful all the time, we are mostly asking for complain every day that others don't reciprocate报答. Who is to blame责备?It is human nature. 忘记感谢乃是人的天性，如果我们一直期望别人感恩，多半是自寻烦恼。 我们天天抱怨别人不会知恩图报，到底该怪谁？这是人性。

Unreasonable criticism is often a disguised伪装了的 compliment恭维，称赞. 不合理的批评往往是一种掩饰了的赞美。

When you have nothing to lose, that's when you start to gain. 当你再也没有什么可以失去的时候，就是你开始得到的时候。

If you're unhappy, then the only way to be happy is to sit up straight笔直 and act and talk like you're your behavior radiates happiness, you cannot remain psychologically 心理上的depressed沮丧.This little basic truth can do wonders for our lives. 如果你不开心，那么，能变得开心的唯一办法是开心地坐直身体，并装作很开心的样子说话及行动。---如果你的行为散发的是快乐，就不可能在心理上保持忧郁。这点小小的基本真理可以为我们的人生带来奇迹。

Having something is a low level happiness while pursuing追求 is a high level happiness. 有所得是低级快乐，有所求是高级快乐。