见识越广，计较越少；经历越多，抱怨越少；人越闲，越矫情。

The more knowledgeable, the less calculated; The more experiences, the fewer complaints; The more idle people are, the more presumptuous。

善良和爱都是免费的，但不是廉价的。你的善良，需要带点锋芒；你的爱，需要带些理智；带眼识人，毕竟不是所有人都配拥有它们。

Kindness and love are free, but not cheap. Your kindness needs to be sharp; Your love needs to bring some sanity; After all, not everyone deserves them。

你从80楼往下看，全是美景，但你从2楼往下看，全是垃圾，人若没有高度，看到的全是问题，人若没有格局，看到的全是鸡毛蒜皮。

You look down from the 80th floor, it's all beautiful, but you look down from the 2nd floor, it's all garbage, if people don't have height, all you see is problems, if people don't have a pattern, all you see is trivial。

你做得再好，也还是有人指指点点；你即便一塌糊涂，也还是有人唱赞歌。所以不必掉进他人的眼神，你需要讨好的，仅仅是你自己。

No matter how well you do it, there are still people pointing fingers; Even if you are a mess, there are still people who sing praises. So you don't have to fall into the eyes of others, you need to please only yourself。

道理都懂，但该怨的还是会怨，该骂的还是会骂，该哭的也还是会哭，毕竟心里的难受不是道理所能释怀的。

The reason is understood, but the resentment will still be complained, the scolding will still be scolded, and the crying will still cry, after all, the discomfort in the heart is not what the truth can let go。

眼里没你的人，你何必放心里；情里没你的份，你何苦一往情深。但同时记住，永远不要因为新鲜感，扔掉一直陪伴你的人。

If you don't have someone in your eyes, why should you rest assured; Without your share in love, why do you have a deep love. But at the same time, remember, never throw away the person who has been with you because of the freshness。

但凡能说透的东西，基本也就是释怀了，要知道，心结，是说不清楚的，甚至说不出口。

But everything that can be said thoroughly is basically a relief, you know, the heart knot, is not clear, or even can not be said。

再难受又怎样，生活还要继续。现实就是这样，半点不留情，你不争就甭想赢！

No matter how uncomfortable it is, life will go on. The reality is like this, half a point without mercy, you don't want to win。