【视频链接】你是罕见的Sigma（西格玛=独狼）类型男士的8个标志

这里有8个你是西格玛男性的迹象！这种人自信、聪明、有魅力，他们知道自己想要什么，有自己的想法，不在乎别人怎么看，也不在乎外在的权威。

西格玛男性与其他男性类型都不同。他们通常被称为“独狼”，西格玛人把独立和自由看得高于一切。他不喜欢被控制，也不遵守规则或传统。这种类型的人制定自己的规则，创造自己的道路。

你是男性中最罕见的Sigma（西格玛）类型的八个标志

你可能很熟悉男性社会等级制度。它呈金字塔型，位于最上层的是Alpha（阿尔法）类型，他们超级自信，动力十足，受到社会关注。处在第二位的是Beta（贝塔）类型，他们敏锐又不咄咄逼人。接下来是Delta（德尔塔）型，他们维持着社会的正常运转。下一个是Gamma（伽玛）型，他们不会讨女人喜欢，也不那么受男性喜欢。在金字塔底部的是Omega（欧米茄），他们没有野心、但很有趣。现在，还有另外一种；他们不符合任何一种传统类型，他们就是Sigma（西格玛）。这些人被认为是最罕见的，下面就将告诉你：你是否是他们中的一员。

一，你喜欢独处

西格玛男性是天生的“独狼”，他们喜欢独处，不需要从他人那里体验完整。如果你属于这种类型，由于你可以独立完成事情，你就不需要同他人一起工作，不需要同他人一同享受成功和快乐。你喜欢这样，当一个人的时候，你可以保持安静，将事情想清楚。当然，你也知道朋友的重要性，但你不以他们来定义自己的身份和价值。因为你挑剔，所以社交圈很小。

二，你安静，喜欢沉思

西格玛男性是典型的安静和沉思型，在做出决定前，他们喜欢先观察环境。你并不害羞，相对于侃侃而谈，你更喜欢倾听。跟话匣子在一起的时候，由于你的这种性格，看起来会好像不善于社交。其实，你绝不是那种把心思藏起来的人，相反，你只是把它们放在别人不易发现的地方。如果有人在没有受到邀请的情况下想接近你，他们可能会遭遇冷淡，甚至敌意，他们知道，试图闯入你的心灵禁地是徒劳的。

三，你按照自己的意志行事

西格玛类型的人不在乎别人怎么想。这并不是说你会主动地忽视他人的意见；而是你的行为和价值取向由你的内在来驱动，而不是来自于外在的压力。你是自己命运的主人。当然，你也会有榜样或导师，但是你知道，没有人是完美的，并且他们的思考和行为方式也不一定适合你。这种态度让你对自己的信仰和能力充满了自信。

四，你独立自主

西格玛男性是非常独立的，他们能够自给自足。不需要别人的帮助，就能照顾好自己。你自省、客观，有洞察能力，能运用自己的内在资源应对日常生活的挑战。你不需要别人来肯定你的价值，也不需要外界的认可，你自己就可以感觉良好。

五，你经常被认为神秘莫测

西格玛男性有一种普通男性所没有的光环。如果你是他们中的一员，别人通常会觉得你神秘莫测。这并不是因为你不让别人知道你是谁；而是因为你有很多别人看不见的东西。人们经常会说你有些“不同”，好像他们能从远处感觉到你的复杂和个性似的。别人甚至会误认为你是冷漠的、超然的。你是独一无二的，无论是你的品味还是看待世界的方式。与其盲目地追求潮流和时尚，你更喜欢按照自己的节奏前进。

六，你灵活，能适应变化

我们无法预测未来，作为一个西格玛类型的男人，你拥抱改变，事情。选择去适应任何发生在你身上的总的来说，你对生活的态度非常灵活。与其去改变不能改变的，你更愿意使用创造性的方案，以其适应新的情况。你不让环境决定你如何生活。

七，你有隐性权威

也许西格玛男性最明显的特征之一就是他们不需要施以权威就可以领导他人。无论你是老板还是下属，你总可以受人钦佩和尊敬。这是因为你的领导力是通过榜样而不是命令来传达的。

你可以融入群体，也可以独立工作。你敢于做自己的事和说出自己的想法，因为你不取悦任何人，你不需要获得接受。

八，你不轻易做是非判断

西格玛男性徘徊于不同文化及其规则的边缘，所以他们不总是接受符合大多数人的是非标准。这意味着，你总是怀疑一些已知的规则，怀疑它们是否值得被遵守，并且，不会在意去打破这些规则。由于你不担心是否能融入群体，你就不太可能陷入群体思维的陷阱，你知道,群体思维基于的是他人的想法，而不是你自己真正相信的。实际上，你不害怕质疑道德观念，反抗那些毫无理由的压制人们的规则。本质上，你质疑既定信念，拒绝来自外界的压力，比如，权威。你可能不总是对的，但至少你是为自己考虑的。

西格玛男性是独特的、罕见的。简而言之，他们有自己的世界。他们的特殊性格使他们成为最迷人的男人之一。如果你认识到自己有这些特征，你很有可能就是一个西格玛类型的人。话虽如此，但请记住，这只是一种认识上的构建。目的是帮助你更好地了解自己，以其更好地与他人互动。

英文：

8 Signs You Are A SIGMA Male, the Rarest of All Men

You’re probably familiar with the classic male socio sexual hierarchy.

It's typically thought of as a pyramid.

At the top are the alphas, those super confident, driven, and assertive men who are incredibly social and thrive on attention.

The betas are the nice guys who are more sensitive and less aggressive.

Then, there’s the deltas, the average guys who keep society running smoothly.

Next come the gammas who aren’t as successful with women and not liked quite as much by other men.

And at the bottom of the pyramid are the omegas, the fun-loving but non-aspirational individuals.

Now, there is another type of guy; the sigma male who doesn't fit into any of the traditional male archetypes, and these men are considered the rarest type.

Here’s how to tell if you’re one of them.

Number 1 - You're Comfortable Being Alone

A sigma male is a lone wolf by nature who's more than happy with his solitude and doesn't need another person to feel complete.

If you belong to this group of men, you simply don't need to be around other people to be happy or successful because you have no problem going solo and doing things on your own.

In fact, you prefer it that way; so you can think things through and make use of the deep silence in your headspace.

Of course, you know that friends are important, but they don't define your identity or self-worth.

Your social circle is small since you're very selective about who gets into it.

Number 2 - You Are Quiet and Contemplative

Sigma males are typically quiet and contemplative, which means you like to observe your surroundings before deciding what to do next.

You're not necessarily shy, but you're likely to be more of a listener than a talker.

And because of this general reserve, your social skills may be a bit rusty, especially when confronted with people who want to chat constantly.

You're definitely not one to wear your heart on your sleeve; instead, you keep it tucked safely inside where no one else can see it.

People who try to get close to you without being invited, may find themselves met with cool reserve or even hostility, as they try in vain to break into the inner sanctum of your mind.

Number 3 - You're Driven by Your Own Internal Compass

If you're a sigma male, you don't care about what other people think.

It's not that you actively ignore them; but rather that your actions and values are driven by your own internal compass, and not external

forces such as peer pressure.

You are the master of your own fate.

Sure, you may have role models or mentors, but you realize that no one is perfect and that their way is not necessarily the best way for you.

And this attitude makes you feel confident in yourself and your abilities.

Number 4 - You're Independent and Self Reliant

As a Sigma male, you’re very independent and self-sufficient.

You can take care of yourself without anyone else's help.

With an ability for introspection, objectivity, and perception, you use your internal resources to deal with the challenges of daily life.

You simply don't need other people to tell you that you have value as a human being.

And you certainly don't need approval from others or seek validation from outside sources to feel good about yourself or your choices.

Number 5 - You're Often Seen as Mysterious and Enigmatic

Sigma males have an aura about them that the average man does not possess.

And if you’re a sigma, others often see as mysterious or enigmatic.

It's not that you don't let on who you are; it's just that there’s a lot more to you than meets the eye.

People often comment that there's something "different" about you as if they can sense your innate complexity and individuality even from a distance.

Others may even mistake you for being aloof and detached.

This is because you are unique, both in your tastes and how you see the world.

Instead of blindly following trends and fads, you choose to march to the beat of your own drum.

Number 6 - You Are Flexible and Adapt to Change Easily

While it's difficult to know what the future holds, as a sigma male, you embrace change and choose to adapt to whatever comes your

way.

You have a very flexible approach to life in general.

Instead of letting change stop you from doing what you want, you’re willing to get creative with solutions and adapt to new situations with ease.

You don't let current circumstances dictate how your life unfolds.

Number 7 - You Can Lead Without Exerting Authority

Perhaps one of the most defining characteristics of Sigma males is that they can lead without exerting authority.

Whether you're the boss or a subordinate, you are always respected and admired.

And that's because your leadership is expressed through example rather than command.

You can be part of a group while also operating independently of it.

You aren't afraid to do your own thing and speak your mind because you have no desire to please or appease others for acceptance.

Number 8 - You Are Morally Gray

Sigma males tend to wander the outskirts of civilization and its rules, so they don't always fit into the good/bad binary that most

people accept unquestioningly.

This means you often wonder if some perceived rule is actually worth following, and you don't shy away from bending or even breaking

that rule.

Since you're not concerned about fitting in, you're less likely to fall into the trap of group-think, where opinions are based on what

everyone else thinks, rather than what you actually believe.

As a matter of fact, you're not afraid to question society's mores and push back against rules that serve to hold others down for no

good reason.

Essentially, you question established beliefs and refuse to buckle under pressure from outside sources like authority figures.

You may not always be right, but at least you're thinking for yourself.

Sigma males are rare, unique, and balanced.

In short, the Sigma male is on his own level.

And the combination of their particular characteristics definitely makes them the most intriguing type of men.

If you recognize these traits in yourself, there’s a good chance that you are a sigma male.

That being said, it’s important to remember that the socio sexual hierarchy is merely an ideological construct.

It is designed to help one better understand themselves, their role in dominance hierarchies, and their interactions with others.

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