there is a topic on douban : at what moment did you realize that there was no one around you and you could only rely on your self？

netizens shared their experiences in the message area。

some people say : in the year of beipiao，I was cheated out of most of my savings because of renting a house，and I only had less than 300元LUN

豆瓣上有一个话题：你在某个瞬间，意识到身边没有人可以依靠，只能依靠自己吗？

网民们在评论区分享了自己的经验。

有人说，在北漂的那一年，租了房子，积蓄的大部分钱都被抢走了，所以全身还剩不到300韩元。

I can only live in a crowded and dark basement . it ' s difficult to turn over。

During that time，I worked as a part-time waiter，handed out leaflets，ate only one steamed stuffed bun every day，and carried id

At the most difficult time，I thought about talking to my parents，but when I thought that they would be so worried that they couldn ' t sleet I

只能住在拥挤昏暗的地下室里，连翻身都很难。

那段时间，我兼职做服务员，发传单，每天只吃一个包子，一个月就这样硬扛着。模板。

即使在最困难的时候，我也想过向父母开口，但当我认为他们会担心得睡不着觉时，我最终决定只告诉他们好消息，不报忧。

some people say : my husband works more than 1000 kilometers away from home，and I take two children at home alone .

One morning，dabao had a fever and xiaobao was crying . there was no one around to help。

I don ' t trust to leave xiaobao at home . I can only run to the town hospital with dabao on my back and xiaobao in my arms。

有人说，丈夫在离家1000多公里的地方工作，我一个人在家带两个孩子。

一天清晨，大宝发烧了，宝宝也哭个不停，身边没有一个人能牵着手。

我不相信把小宝丢在家里。我可以一边抱着小宝一边跑到村医院。

It was a few degrees below zero，and the cold wind made my whole face ache。

the next day my husband called . I resisted my grievance and told him that everything was fine at home .

others said : I was unfortunately laid off by the company last year because of the recession in the industry。

零下几度的天气，寒风吹得整个脸都疼了。

第二天丈夫打电话来的时候，我忍住了委屈，云淡淡地告诉他家里一切都好。

还有人说，由于去年行业不景气，不幸被公司裁员。

At that time，my wife was pregnant . after knowing the news，I didn't dare to tell her at all。

I can only go out on time every day and pretend to go to work normally。

In fact，I found a park far from home and stayed all day。

Thatweek，I was frantically refreshing the recruitment website every day . whenever there was a bit of hope，I submitted my resume to theek

那段时间我妻子怀孕了，知道这个消息后，我完全没告诉她。

每天只能准时出门，假装正常上班。

事实上，我找到了离家比较远的公园，一等就呆了一整天。

那一周，我每天疯狂刷新招聘网站，但所有有希望的工作岗位都向他们投了简历。

I have heard a saying : ' on the road of life，it is lucky to have branches to rely on，and the strength to carry is the foundation . '

When we were young，we always relied on the care of the people around us。even if the sky fell，someone carried it for ourselves .

As you get older，your parents will get older，your friends will be separated，and your friends will have their own abilities .

it ' s raining heavily in the world . no one can carry more for you。

No matter how much bitterness，it can only be digested silentlyNo matter how hard and tired，you can only carry it alone。

only a person who has experienced set backs can understand that the rainbow after strength is the most beautiful scenery .

“人生路上风雨交加，有树枝是幸运的，有力地扛着是最底层的。”听到了。" "

年轻的时候，我们总是依靠周围人的照顾，即使天塌下来，也有人替自己扛着。

随着年龄的增长，父母越来越老，好朋友越来越分手，伴侣也不跟随自己的力量。

世界上大雨倾盆，没有人能为你背负更多。

再多的烦恼也只能默默消化。再苦再累，也只能一个人硬填。

只有一个人经历挫折的考验，才能知道坚强后的彩虹，这是最美的风景。